If someone seems like they are too good to be true, they are! Most abusive relationships started out with the person pretending to be extremely kind and then blaming their significant other for "causing them to be this way". You can ONLY control YOUR behavior. The best thing to do is take a new relationship slow, this way you know what you are getting yourself into and no one can trap you. You are a free person. Another reason to take things slow is it allows you time to build a foundation and your relationship will last and be more satisfying. Waiting for the right person is always worthwhile. You are better off in no relationship than being with Mr. Wrong. Mr. Right is worth the wait and he will come when the time is right. Decide who Mr. Right is for you.
Remember that your partner is putting his / her best face forward and is trying to conceal negative flaws in the beginning. The negative flaws tend to exasperate, or get worse, with time. This person is trying to win you over, so you are only seeing mostly positive characteristics. Slow down! Put your eggs in all different baskets to avoid getting hurt.... take a class, spend more time with friends, go to a church, take a vacation, or join the gym. Be yourself, God loves you the way you are and so will the person who is worth your time!
You deserve to be happy. Take care of yourself!
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